Bratty Girl: The Pain of Failed Relationship

The Pain of Failed Relationship

February 19, 2008

There is nothing wrong in caring for a person you once loved. It is only when you expect something in return that bitterness may creep its way back into your life again. Remember, if it is unselfish love that you will give, it is unselfish love that you will get. This might be the road to a friendship that will breathe life into a new and wonderful relationship. If it is not, then be thankful just the same because you have been given the chance to show him that you have loved and have been hurt. But you have forgiven and loved again.

Sometimes we love so much that we fail to realize that we are already choking our relationships. We cannot own the people we love. We just have to love them and give them the freedom to do as they wish. All we have to do is let them know that when they fall, we’ll always be there to catch them and take care of them.

When we fail in our relationships, we ask ourselves what went wrong. There are times when nothing was wrong. Sometimes love just naturally fades away and this happens to people who are simply not meant for each other. I know it is difficult to comprehend why relationships suddenly take unexpected turns. But, it always happens. People we treasure are taken away from us for a reason. Sometimes we have to stop asking why and just accept our fate. If there is certainty in that end, then we should stop being bitter and just be thankful that for once, we have loved and shared our life.