The One that Got Away
March 10, 2008
It really doesn’t matter if you’re 19 or 89; you more than likely feel that you have one of these. At some point in your life, you were completely enamored with someone who didn’t find your charm quite as appealing. They broke your heart, but to you, that made them much more I usually lose it for some reason which tells me this might be the new diet plan; have guys I really like break up with me. Or maybe not.
You will obsess over “what could have been” which is how the “one that got away” stigma actually comes into existence. With this kind of relationship, you never felt like you had a fair chance. Since these relationships are typically short, you never get to the stage where things are bad.
You see this guy as nearly perfect. And then, like a knife in the heart, he breaks up with you out of nowhere. It hits you like a ton of bricks and you can’t justify it. You can’t say, “Well, he was too overbearing” or “Good riddance, what a lousy piece of a**”. Deluding yourself will not work here. Telling your friends that you’re fine will not work either. The cloud that hangs over your head will last for quite sometime and it’s possible that your view on love or relationships may be temporarily altered.
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